You might think working in a baby store would automatically mean I can recommend the one “must have” item for an expectant family at the drop of a hat.
Not so.
Naturally, I feel that all of our products are “must haves”—it’s nearly impossible for me to narrow it down to just one! : )
But, seriously, all jokes aside, I was recently confronted by my dental hygienist with this very question. And I balked. I was so embarrassed!
So, after much deliberation on my part (and checking in with the other team members at our store), I decided I’d put it down in writing so that I am NEVER caught in that situation again.
So here it is…what we all consider to be “must have items” –together it makes a great guide to use when registering for baby, picking out the things you need for yourself, or for friends and family to consult when picking out a gift.
Andrea (mom of 2):
The ring sling was what really saved my life. Because baby wants to be held so much, it allowed me to go about everything else in my day and snuggle baby at the same time. It’s a great tool for bonding and reducing stress for the moms who “need to get everything done” all the time (*cough* like me.) There’s a learning curve, but once you get the hang of it, it’s a cinch.
Denise (mom of 7)
I think it’s important to not forget mom during pregnancy. A nice lotion or cream for her itchy tummy should be a “must have”. And early on, something for morning sickness would be nice. Like ginger flavored suckers or hard candy. For after baby arrives–you can simply never have enough burp clothes or cloth diapers. They are so multi-functional.
Lyndsey (owner of B&B and mom of 5):
I think one of the biggest mistakes expecting moms make is to buy maternity bras rather than nursing bras while pregnant. A good nursing bra is a life saver and can be worn during pregnancy and after baby is born. Whether you decide to breastfeed or not, quality nursing bras are comfortable and supportive during a time when your body is changing.
Lissett (birth and post partum doula):
I see my clients struggling to swaddle baby in receiving blankets they’ve gotten as gifts, so I’d say, an extra large swaddle blanket is a must have. Also, because baby’s fingers are so tiny, and their nails can get so sharp, a good baby sized nail file is essential.
Our Lactation Consultants and RN’s weigh in on this topic below as well:
From Ann Keppler RN, MN mother of two and grandmother of two and co-author Pregnancy,Childbirth and the Newborn:
My must haves would include Carlson Vitamin D drops necessary for breastfed infants and for formula fed infants receiving less than 400 IU of vitamin D from their formula. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends infants receive 400 IU vitamin D daily starting within days of birth. Just one drop of Carlson’s on a finger or nipple provides just the right amount.
A yoga ball to bounce an infant on while holding them – works so well to soothe a fussy baby.
The Aden and Anais blankets are wonderful for swaddling babies and are large enough to last through the first year. They also drape well over a nursing baby in a public setting.